Jessica's Story

Jun 04, 2023

Jessica's Story

Jessica spent ten years as a dancer at a Reno strip club. Jessica’s roommate introduced her to the strip club, where she started making good money and she was able to pay her bills again.

I was sexually abused as a child. I had a single mom who was never around. I guess I was an easy target. It was a really dark time for me. I was really lonely.

The job made her feel disposable, so she often got as drunk as possible before work in order to numb her thoughts.

I never slept with any customers, but I definitely let the lines blur. I had men put $7,000 cash on the table and say, ‘what can you do for me?’ I’d think, man, I could pay my rent for the next six months. I’ll never see you again and it’s half an hour of my life. I created this belief system in my mind that if men only wanted me for my body, then why shouldn’t I take advantage of them too?

Jessica’s life as a dancer was also dangerous. She remembers other dancers leaving the club with customers and returning with black eyes and other injuries. Some women never came back. She believes the club owners exploited the dancers and tried to get them intoxicated so they could take advantage of them.

If you gave the manager a cut of what you were making, they would turn a blind eye. Strip club is basically a cover name for a brothel.

Awaken was Jessica’s ticket out of an industry that had her feeling trapped with no choices. When Jessica first quit her job after ten years as a dancer at a Reno strip club, she was terrified of being judged, and she felt like she didn’t have any skills that would transfer into the job market.

The hardest thing about getting out of this industry is ‘okay so this is what I did for ten years.' So, what do I put on my resume?

She transitioned slowly—first finding work as a bartender, and then eventually starting nursing school where she is set to begin clinical trials in June 2021. She says she hopes to one day volunteer to support Awaken because she understands what it’s like to feel trapped in the sex industry.


Awaken offered financial assistance, and got her connected with a therapist who she says has changed her life for the better. Jessica is now in a healthy relationship with her boyfriend of four years, and she’s even begun rebuilding ties to her family.


“I don’t know how to express how good it feels. Freedom. You have autonomy. You have your body. No one gets to look at you. You don’t have to be abused. There is no shame for me anymore. It’s not a secret. This is me and what I have been through, and I made it."

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“Prevention is so important for girls who have been degraded, walked on, stomped on and discarded. These girls are just babies who want love. When someone gives them attention, they are in. I think if someone would have reached out a hand to me and held it, it would have been nice.”...
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“I sacrificed parts of myself that I didn’t want to because I thought I was in a safe environment. It was all very hush-hush in the club. The dancers all say they don’t do it, but I’m pretty sure everyone was involved in this. We had a lot of shame about it and so we didn’t talk about it.”...
04 Jun, 2023
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04 Jun, 2023
"If Awaken wasn’t here, I don’t know what I would do. Where would I be? Ever since the trafficking, it has stuck with me. It effects how I view myself and how other people treat me. You can’t undo what has been done to you."...
11 May, 2023
“It’s really something that no one wants to address. Everyone looked down on me before, treated me like dirt. We need to bring awareness to people. That’s where it starts. Prostitution is frowned upon, but it’s also accepted in some ways, and it’s legal here. Think about your daughters, your sisters, your neighbors.”...
10 May, 2023
Annie now sells insurance, pays her own rent, and proudly mothers her three resilient daughters who also play sports and get straight A’s. Annie says Awaken helped her finally break her damaging life cycle. “They didn’t shame me or guilt me or make me feel bad about my life choices. They intervened and were a support system for me. To thank them, I stay on the right path. The best way I can give back is by telling my story.”
10 May, 2023
aterina is proud of herself for the first time ever in her 27 years of life. She recently went back to school and earned her GED and she’s taking college classes in order to become an HVAC technician. It’s also the first time in as long as she can remember that she doesn’t owe anyone anything—not money, not sex and not drugs. In November of 2020, Katerina became the very first graduate of Awaken’s restorative housing program designed to help sex trafficking victims recover and reclaim their lives.
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“I looked out the window and saw a mom at a park playing with her kids. I thought, ‘Why can’t I just be normal like that?’”...
08 May, 2023
Angela’s childhood was extremely hard. She was surrounded by drug addiction, alcohol abuse and prostitution from a young age. And when she was just 19, she was devastated when she found her mother’s dead body on their living room couch.

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